Hooking up with a single mom? Bad idea?

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It is fair to point out that it takes 2 to make a baby. When you are a single man, you can live your own life, when you are with a woman, you may still be able to do that, or she might even be interested in joining you. Not to be blunt, but people without kids don't need tthe baggage. It was almost as thought they knew how to manipulate their mum, and pull out the protective momma bear out of her.

It's scary to think that someone would decide you weren't worth the risk after finding out what got you where you are. I get judgemental comments all that time, and it hurts deeply. This is the one thing that keeps so many single moms off the market.

Hooking up with a single mom? Bad idea?

Just got back from the shortest date I've ever had it was about 15 minutes. I've been disentangling myself from this relationship with this older chick I'm seeing and trying to get with one of these two younger girls I've known for weeks. I finally got the go signal from not one of them, but both of them! I couldn't believe it. I scored with both of these honies at the same time. How wrong I was. I'm late for work. They tell me to sit down while they do whatever. Are you gonna stay longer than my other daddies? I pinched myself to see if I was dreaming and then when I found I wasn't, I raced outta that apartment like there was a timebomb in it. I just told my pal about it and he doesn't think there's nothing wrong with dating a chick with kids. Right now, I've come to the realization that too many guys are misinformed about the perils of dating women with kids. Here are the reasons why you shouldn't: 1. Kids will interrupt sex. The dads might come over and give you trouble. If she likes you she might get desperate and see you as a potential daddy without considering whether that's what you want. If you ever go out on dates with her and her kids you most likely will be the one where the majority of the financial burden falls on. She might ask you to babysit. You'll always come second place to the boogereater. There is a law in some states, or it may be federal, where if you get into a relationship with her, and the child sees you as a father figure, you may be required to pay child support. Unless her kids are grown and financially supporting themselves, there is no reason to date a woman with kids. Hope you dudes have learned a lesson. Never got that far but yeah, the kids get all confused about your relationship with the mom. That's why I'm around. I'm not here for you. And you better check yourself when you say that law is total b. I am almost 100% positive it is true. It's ironic for you to be in LA and not be aware of that law because I think NY and CA are the strictest when it comes to that law. Maybe ask your bro about that law. There is a law in some states, or it may be federal, where if you get into a relationship with her, and the child sees you as a father figure, you may be required to pay child support. If there were such a law, it would be a state law, not federal. The federal government has no jurisdiction over family law issues. However, I have never heard of any states having any oppressive laws like that. If you think dating a woman with kids has perils then just don't date a woman with kids.. I'm sure they would thank you that you didn't waste their time. Since a child isn't something to be made fun of or be taken lightly you seem like you are in the wrong place in your life for being a responsible figure to someone who has the true life responsibility of raising a child.. Nothing wrong with preferences but no need to paint a woman with kids in a negative light.. There are many more pluses in dating someone who has kids than you can imagine.. In my first marriage I was a steparent to a wonderful little girl.. The federal government has no jurisdiction over family law issues. However, I have never heard of any states having any oppressive laws like that. If she is not married, the presumed father is encouraged to sign an Acknowledgement of Paternity when the baby is born. Once a man is established as the legal father, he has 4 years to dispute his paternity and request DNA testing. After the 4 year statute of limitations has passed, even if a DNA test proves that the man is not the father, he is still responsible for child support. Source: If there were such a law, it would be a state law, not federal. The federal government has no jurisdiction over family law issues. However, I have never heard of any states having any oppressive laws like that. I'll try to find any concrete source proving it exists. But it wouldn't surprise me if it does. You've probably heard of how many guys are getting DNA scans to find out if their kids are really their's, find out the kid isn't, find out the mama lied, get a divorce, but still have to pay child support on a kid that isn't theirs. That's one helluva oppressive law too. To Art Critic: If a woman became a widow and she has kids to raise up, then I can show some sympathy. But I have no sympathy for out of marriage kids. I'm not dealing with that. I could be the next guy that's responsible for the new kid she's got. I want to stay child-free. I avoid any traps as best as I can. I want to stay child-free. I avoid any traps as best as I can. At least you know your limits and there isn't anything wrong with that.. Something to keep your mind open about though is that someday you may find yourself a single Dad and be subject to the same critique that you are giving single Mom's right now.. Yeah, I know it could happen, but I can't live my life like that. A guy on the street asks me for change, and I know I could be in the same situation as him, so should I give him my change just cuz it could happen? What if he wants to use my hard-earned cash for drugs or is just a scam artist? I can't let that kind of thinking be the maker of my actions. Do you know that there are women who purposely get pregnant? Have you ever had a woman poke holes in your condom, or purposely get off the pill cuz she wanted to get pregnant? If you haven't then I'm glad you live in such a world where women are always the victim of circumstances: That story above is just one of many stories I've heard across this dang nation about women purposely getting pregnant. These same women have no compunction against having multiple kids by multiple fathers: I've never heard of a guy purposely trying to get a woman pregnant so he could have a kid. And I'm definitely not that type of guy. But if I was a single father it would be due to unfortunate circumstances, not by choice. Those two women I met were never married and their kids most likely never knew their fathers, which would explain why that kid asked me if I was gonna be his dad. Those women got knocked up by some dude they knew wouldn't care about them if they got pregnant, and now they gotta deal with it. But not with me.

They were good kids but the 3yr old got jealous when her mom tried to cuddle with me. Particularly, if he is wanting to live according to Scripture — he is supposed to give of himself as Christ gave of himself for the church. For now I am happy and am not looking for love. They will not expect much from him in this way unless he offers and even then, they will feel bad for asking. Unfortunately, many single mom's are struggling. Describe Yourself For Dating Profile Examples, Male Online Dating Profile Examples, Speed Dating in Colima Mexico. Outside of that, your views seem really misguided. Men can do stuff do avoid getting a girl pregnant too. Anonymous Not all single mothers are the same. I've been disentangling myself from this relationship with this older chick I'm seeing and trying to get with one of these two younger girls I've known for weeks.